sadly most of us put 90 % of our hearts, minds and souls into our most
dysfunctional, unhealthy, invalidating relationships,
and save the little bit that’s left for the people who are good and kind to us,
it’s time we flip this skewed calculus and start giving the best of ourselves
to our healthy and reciprocal relationships and  really only give the bare
minimum to the relationships that really aren’t helping us grow. #ramani durvasula